Anal Toys
So you might be interested in anal play and are thinking what's
the best way to go about anal sex?
Well, first clean the area well, an enema never hurts either.
Then tease the rectum until the opening puckers. Once puckered
insertion is much more comfortable. Start small when it comes to
insertion, nothing larger then your pinky finger. Larger sizes can
be comfortably accommodated with practice.
If done correctly the entire experience is painless. There are
products on the market that contain Benzocaine or Lidocaine which
are numbing agents. They are marketed to make anal sex painless.
However, pain is the body's way of letting you know something is
wrong. It wouldn't make sense to cover up that natural warning
signal. Follow the correct steps and be patient.
A few key points to anal sex are:
- Never insert anything unless there is some
kind of flared base or handle or anything you can hang on to. The
anus has a tendency to swallow objects whole. As funny as that
sounds, it's true. Hospitals around the country have that special
file cabinet full of x-rays of people that have gotten an object
lodged inside of their rectums.
- Don't switch from anal sex to oral or vaginal
sex. No matter how many times you see it done in the movies. Unless
you have a condom on during anal sex which you can remove before
switching. The anus is full of bacteria that cannot be washed away
and infection and illness could follow shortly after the act is
done.
Now that the basic how-to is out of the
way, lets cover the basic tools of the trade. We'll
start with plugs.
Anal Plugs are cone shaped items that come in
various sizes, materials, and colors. They all have some sort of
flared base to prevent the anus from swallowing it. Best used
by those who enjoy pressure over thrusting or by those practicing
to accommodate larger sizes.
Anal wands
or tools are simply objects that are cylindrical in shape
and marketed for anal penetration and have some sort of flared base
or handle. Some will vibrate and some will graduate in size.
Meaning they are smallest at the tip and increase in diameter the
closer you get to the base.
Anal Beads
are just as the name suggests….beads. The beads will be
attached to some type of cord and will come in a variety of sizes
shapes materials and colors. The biggest difference is the cord.
Nylon cords should be considered a one time use item only. Nylon
can't be washed clean and gives bacteria a safe place to hide. If
the product is bought with the intention of being used time and
time again we Suggest one that has a rubber or rubber coated cord.
Rubber can be easily cleaned and maintained.